Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Giving Thanks

Tomorrow we celebrate Thanksgiving. And while it seems that the modern version of the holiday centers on stuffing ourselves with turkey, then burping through a football game or two, there are still many who honor the day as it was intended - to pause in our busy lives to give thanks for the blessings we have received.

As I mentioned in my last post, I have many reasons to be thankful. Here are just some of them:

  • I have a job. Don't laugh - many people are out of work, and the number is rising. So I'm very grateful that I still have a way to earn a living.
  • I have my health. I recently quit smoking (again), and this time, it's the Final Quit. I still have a lot I'd like to accomplish before moving on, so I'm thankful I'm healthy and can look forward to several more decades.
  • I have a wonderful, sweet woman who loves me just as I am. And supports my vision, the mission I've taken upon myself to complete. I am truly blessed to have such a strong love in my life. And even more blessed that she has agreed to marry me. I can't say thank you enough for this gift, so I make sure to do so at least twice a day!
  • I have my family, which loves me unconditionally.
  • I have my band, and the opportunity to use my gift of music to make others happy.
Of course, there are also many smaller reasons to be thankful. Every day brings new gifts, new joy. And I am thankful for each moment. I believe that it's important to be thankful every day - many times a day. But I also believe that it's good to take this day to pause and reflect on ALL of the good things in our lives... to remind ourselves that, even though they aren't perfect, our lives are gifts for which we should be constantly thankful.

Remember: being thankful for the many blessings you receive is a ciritical part of living a life with Spirit!

In peace,

Lane

Sunday, November 23, 2008

The Week to Give Thanks

This year, I get an entire week in which to give thanks. I say this because today is the day we will have Thanksgiving dinner at our house of worship. We're doing this so that those who are traveling to visit family over the holidays can still take part.

Every year, I make a list of reasons to be thankful. And this year, I think the list is going to be rather long, as I've had some wonderful things come into my life this year. I'll post the list Thursday instead of today, as I want to really give some serious thought to it before writing it out and putting it on the Net.

So why mention it today? First, because today starts my week of Thanksgiving. Second, because I hope to encourage you to make your own list. I know that many - myself included - have suffered some hardships, especially with the meltdown of our economy. But even in such circumstances, there are many things to be thankful for. I hope each of you will take some time to think about the GOOD things in your life, and will remember to be thankful for each one.

I'll see you in a few days. Until then, however, be thankful!

In peace,

Lane

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Today We All Are Called to Be Disciples

The Sunday before last, we sang a Christian hymn at service. I was very impressed with this particular song, because of the many wonderful ideas it offers. I decided right then and there to share it with you here.

Today We All Are Called to Be Disciples

Today we all are called to be
Disciples of the Lord
To help to set the captive free
Make plow-share out of sword
To feed the hungry quench their thirst
Make love and peace our fast
To serve the poor and homeless first
Our ease and comfort last

God made the world and at its birth
Ordained our human race
To live as stewards of the earth
Responding to God's grace
But we are vain and sadly proud
We sow not peace but strife
Our discord spreads a deadly cloud
That threatens all of life

Pray justice may come rolling down
As in a mighty stream
With righteousness in field and town
To cleanse us and redeem
For God is longing to restore
An earth where conflicts cease
A world that was created for
A harmony of peace

May we in service to our God
Act out the living word
And walk the road the saints have trod
Till all have seen and heard
As stewards of the earth may we
Give thanks in one accord
To God who calls us all to be
Disciples of the Lord

Whether your are Christian or not, I believe this hymn offers many excellent suggestions for living a life with Spirit. Instead of telling you how I feel about it, however, I'd like to ask you to think about the words, and what they mean. I hope you will enjoy them as much as I do.

In peace,

Lane

Monday, November 17, 2008

I Quit!

Today, I am officially a non-smoker. After losing a 4-year Quit, and then stopping and restarting more times than I can count, this is The Last Quit. I thought I'd mention it here for those who might like to follow my progress.

I've recently set up another blog - The Diary of a Quitter - and will post almost daily to that one. For the most part, I won't be discussing my Quit here. But I did want to let readers know about this exciting new adventure.

In peace,

Lane

Saturday, November 15, 2008

Lessons From Our Ancestors

Recently, I came across a poster that offered ten lessons attributed to the “Native Americans.” Now, there is no such thing as a “pan-Indian” life-way. Each nation had its own ways, its own myths, legends, teaching stories, even technology. However, there are are many common philosophies, just as there are common threads among all religions. And it is to these common threads the poster alludes.

I admire the concepts offered, and have decided to keep this list handy, although I will not refer to them, as does the poster as “The Native American Ten Commandments,” and changed the name by which the Sacred is called. (Native Americans don’t have a “ten commandments”, even within a specific nation, and I prefer to stay closer to their original concept of “God” instead of attempting to force their beliefs into a different religious structure. See my previous post on assimilation for more on this.)


Here then is my slight edit of the list of lessons, each followed by a thought or two.


The earth is our mother. Care for her.

Even a rat knows to not foul its own nest. Caring for the earth is no different that keeping our own house in order. It’s merely a question of scale of thinking.


Honor all your relations.

We are related to everything in creation. Everything deserves respect.

Open your heart and soul to the Mystery.

This seems obvious – live a life of Spirit.

All life is sacred. Treat all beings with respect.

The wanton destruction of species, whether predator or prey, only serves to damage the complex web of all life.

Take from the earth what is needed and nothing more.

Greed is NOT good, especially on a global, environmental level. To take more than is needed is to leave less for the ever-growing population to come.

Do what needs to be done for the good of all.

Live your life in service to others. Virtually every Life Way teaches us to find our fulfillment in what we do for others, not in the “things” we accumulate.

Give constant thanks to the Mystery for each new day.

Be grateful for all you receive. Constantly immerse yourself in the Sacred that flows through all of creation.

Speak the truth, but only of the good in others.

It is just as hurtful to speak badly of others as it is to lie. The only person you should be talking to is the person themselves who is in question. And if you must talk to someone about their negative behavior or thoughts, it should be done in a caring, respectful manner, with the goal of helping them live a better life. It should never be done in anger. To all others, you we should confine ourselves to only speaking of the positive in others.

Follow the rhythms of nature. Rise and retire with the sun.

To me, this one isn’t about going to sleep at sundown. Rather, it tells us when to begin and end our workday. After the sun has gone down, it’s time to be with family – eating, telling stories, singing… being.

Enjoy life’s journey, but leave no tracks.

We should each strive to leave the world a better place than it was when we arrived. Enjoy the gifts, relish in the many wonderful things a good life brings, but remember that we are only stewards, charged with the responsibility to care for the rest of creation. This ensures that future generations will also have a wondrous world in which to live.

I hope you will take the time to carefully consider each lesson. I see no conflict between these teachings and those of the religions I’ve studied. In fact, they seem to reinforce them. I think they would be an excellent touchstone for anyone seeking to live a life of Spirit.

In peace,

Lane

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Assimilation is Futile

In the popular series Star Trek: Next Generation, the Borg are a recurring enemy. A "collective" community, the Borg assimilate all cultures with which they come in contact - whether they like it or not. Their response to any attempt to escape is, "you will be assimilated. Resistance is futile."

Forgive my audacity, but my reply is "oh, no, it isn't!!

Why am I talking about a science fiction TV series? Because I was reminded of it the other day as I read a letter to the editors of USA Today. In the letter, an emigre from Eastern Europe suggested assimilation as the best option for Muslims in the US. His reason was that he himself came to America because he wanted to live the American dream. For me, that's a total paradox. Not since the Puritans did the "American dream" include religious persecution. In fact, we've enjoyed constitutional protection for freedom of religion since the document was written. This right was then strengthened with further legislation in the 20th century... to guarantee that each of us could worship in the manner that best suits us.

Evidently, the problem is that a few devout Muslims wanted to take a few moments for prayer at the correct times, according to their scriptures. And, while it is true that there are five times each day, only three of these would impact normal working hours. Furthermore, they could be coordinated with morning and afternoon breaks (required by law) and lunch break. What's the big deal, I wonder?

Would the letter writer have felt the same way if the persons being persecuted were Christians who felt the need for multiple daily prayers? Or Jews? Would others have reacted negatively if it was about people of their own religion? I don't know, but I have a feeling that there is some level of double standard being applied here.

To me, one of the biggest problems with our country, and our world, is that we're too religious and not spiritual enough. So many people are so fully wrapped up in their own dogma that they forget it's OK for others to follow different belief structures. They're so busy thumping others with their religious book, they forget to actually follow the teachings. Come on, folks! If someone wants to pray more, let them! In fact, here's a thought: join them with a prayer of your own!

Let me offer a thought from Wade Davis, noted Canadian anthropologist:

The world in which you were born is just one model of reality. Other cultures are not failed attempts at being you. They are unique manifestations of the human spirit.

I have no desire to be assimilated. Nor do I wish to see anyone else forced away from their own understanding of the nature of the Sacred. I would go so far as to say that assimilation itself is futile. We are different one from another, and that is as it should be. If we all wore the same clothes, we'd be wearing uniforms. If we all wore the same religion, it would be an enforced religion. Think about that for a minute.

Christians - even just the protestant varieties - can't agree on interpretation of numerous biblical concepts and passages. How are we ever going to force everyone on the planet into a single paradigm?

Celebrate the differences! Instead of turning up your nose at someone because they pray differently, or at different times, why not worry about your own spiritual journey? Because, to me, if you are worrying about how or when a person prays, you aren't living a life with Spirit.

In peace,

Lane

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Catching Up - Again!

Good morning! As you already know if you've been reading here, I've had a very difficult time posting consistently. Believe me when I tell you that I'd much rather have had the time! (smile) Today, I just wanted to say "HI!" and get on track for a minimum of two posts per week.

I'd also like to inform you that I have another blog that was just set up yesterday. The Diary of a Quitter is my journal about quitting smoking. I am at T-6 days and gearing up for my FINAL quit! Feel free to check that one out as well.

Here's hoping this post finds you well and happy... and productive!