Happy Holidays, No Matter What They Are!

The Holiday War has started once again. Amazingly enough, during one of our most important holiday seasons, there's a good chance that, whether you say "Merry Christmas" or Happy Holidays", many people will take offense. It would be funny if it wasn't so destructive to our society.

There are numerous winter traditions - Christian, Jewish, Muslim, and indigenous/nature based life-ways all have winter holidays - and that only scratches the surface. They are all celebrated at approximately the same time, during the shortest days of the year. Why, then, do some Christians get so angry when others acknowledge all holidays, instead of just one? Then again, why do some non-Christians get so upset if someone wishes them a Merry Christmas?

Both groups show a level of intolerance that is in direct conflict with the teachings they espouse. Each side accuses the other of intolerance, and of attacking "their" traditions, while ignoring the hypocrisy of their position. Each side attempts to lay exclusive claim to various holiday traditions, even widespread customs, such as decorated trees &/or decorating the home with greenery (most often coniferous evergreens), the Yule log, caroling. The two main opponents (Christians and "universalists", for lack of a better term) each demand that only their approved greeting be used.

Where is the tolerance and respect demanded by our beliefs? Where is the walk, and not just talk - disrespectful talk at that? All of it seems so pointless, so destructive, so unspiritual.

I have friends of at least a dozen faiths; among the Christians, I can immediately recall ten Protestant denominations, minor differences notwithstanding, not to mention the various types of Catholics I know. More curious is that at least three of the denominations of which I'm familiar do not celebrate Christmas at all. They do not trim a tree; they do not exchange presents; they do not wish each other a Merry Christmas. One of them views the whole affair as decidedly heathen, pagan, and in direct conflict with the Bible.

Why should my Celtic friends refer to their holiday tree using another religion's term? Why should my Jewish friends not call their tree a Hanukkah Tree? And, if our government represents all of the people, why shouldn't we call it a Holiday Tree when it's on government property?

We can all gather around the Holiday Tree and sings carols together. We can sing songs from each tradition, and learn about each other in a respectful way. Isn't that better than arguing over territory and the rights of one above all others? If a person greets us with a phrase different from our own, we can still acknowledge it with a smile. Even better we can show respect for our friends and associates by using their term when greeting them.

Instead of engaging in fruitless, sacrilegious hostility, let us engage in peaceful respect for others in our community. Let us seek harmony and understanding, as taught by our holy books and scriptures. Instead of acting as adversaries, let us join hands as friends and live a life of Spirit together.

In peace,

Lane

The Eye of God

This is a picture that's been making the rounds on the Internet lately. It's name, according to the email, is the Eye of God.

In actuality, this is a composite picture, taken by the Hubble Space Telescope and Kitt Peak National Observatory (Arizona), of the Helix Nebula. Created by the gasses and dust emitted by a dying star, it's a trillion mile long tunnel of glowing gas.

Regardless of its origin, it sure looks like an eye watching us. And who is to say how the Sacred chooses to make itself known to us? After all, the Sacred shines in all things, all places, so why not in this picture?

Having looked at it many times, I've decided this is the left eye. I base that on the shape of the "lid", and the arch of the "eyebrow" above it. Don't ask me why, but I think the right eye is closed in a wink.

I believe that there is indeed a creator of all things, and that both it and the creation are sacred. I believe that the Sacred watches over us, and will offer us comfort, support, teachings and understanding -- if we ask, if we are open. I believe that, in order to live a life with Spirit, it is essential to see the Sacred in all things. So, when I see the Eye of God in this photograph, it's not really all that different than seeing the Spirit of the Sacred in a blade of grass. Only the scale is different.

Knowing that the Sacred permeates our existence is a very positive step on the road to living a life with Spirit. I hope you enjoy the journey!

In peace,

Lane

Pictures from the Wedding

Yesterday, I received the first set of pictures from the wedding. I thought I'd take a minute to share them with you.



A final moment of reflection before the beginning of the ceremony.


The vows.


The kiss. Finally! It's done!


Granddaughter Haylee leads the recessional.


Toasting my lovely bride.


Sharing the cake.


Serving the wedding cake to friends and family.

And now, we begin our lives together... living a life with Spirit! May it always be so!

In peace,

Lane

"Let Go and Let God"

It's been a week since my last post, but with good reason for the lapse: I got married last Sunday! Yes, you read that correctly - the love of my life made an "honest man" out of me. And, boy, does it feel good!

Our wedding was small and informal -- a few dozen close friends and family members. The ceremony and following reception were held at the converted house that serves as sanctuary for the small congregation of which we are a part. And, since I lead a Blues band, we did a Blues reception - pulled pork and beef, with all the trimmings, and home made cakes, neither of them tiered, neither of them white. (Chocolate and carrot, for those interested.)

As folks were "filling the corners" as the Hobbits say, I gave the one and only toast. After acknowledging the chef and his "staff" (my business partner, Bob Stevens and his wonderful wife Sheri), I acknowledged my blushing bride. During my toast, I said that I'd finally "let go and let God." There was far more to say than the brief time allowed, so today I'd like to expand on my short toast. In other words, here's a short story made long:

For years I looked down, not up. I looked at the path that I was determined to walk instead of the path prepared by Spirit. I wasn't listening to the messages and wasn't seeing the signs. On I trudged, slogging through a life of pain and strife. When things went wrong, I dug in my heels and determined to walk with greater commitment. When they still went wrong, I bent my back and put my head down, convinced I could make way against the strong head wind. When nothing changed, I finally became convinced that I was meant to be alone. I wasn't happy about it, but I did come to accept it.

And I was wrong.

Even though my understanding was flawed, I did the thing that was most important: I "let go and let God." I let go of my own preconceived notion of what my life is supposed to be. I let go of my attempt to force the universe into providing me with a mate - and with a specific mate. Yes, I was misdirected, but at least I wasn't attempting to direct things on my own. And I got out of God's way so the divine plan could unfold.

And, lo! There she was. Right where she'd been for months! My same age, with many of the same interests and a life philosophy that perfectly dovetails with my own. Warm, kind, giving in all things and at all times... just the kind of person I myself would like to be. And from the very beginning, she loved me deeply and truly, without judgment or criticism of my faults. How could I have missed seeing such a wonderful woman for so long, I wondered?

I missed her because I was doing my best to supersede the divine plan with my own. I was attempting to force the square peg of the universe into a round hole of my design. And, since the universe is bigger than me, it won.

Thing is, I've let go and let God in many ways. I do the work I am called to do. I follow the path that has called to me for decades, and I'm constantly listening to ensure I walk the path the best that I can. But when it came to my "personal" life, I took matters into my own hands. I forgot that, because our personal relationships are our most important spiritual learning-grounds, Spirit had a plan for me in that regard as well.

Even though I finally let go enough to allow Spirit to take control, I almost messed it up anyway. I allowed my fear to bubble up from down deep inside. I worried that I was making the wrong choice... that I would end up being hurt deeply again. And I almost walked away from the person with which I was meant to share the rest of my life. In other words, I almost grabbed 'hold and took the reins for myself yet again.

My friends stood by, hoping and praying that I'd make the right choice, yet knowing that if they attempted to convince me, I'd resist. Finally, one my closest friends, after hearing me talk about something my new "girlfriend" had done, asked me, "Lane, how many flares does this woman need to launch? What's it going to take to make you realize this is the one?"

In response, I mumbled something akin to "I don't know," and changed the subject. But his questions nagged at me, refusing to leave me alone until I worked through them. And I'm so glad I did finally work through them, because it finally dawned on me that Spirit had known for some time who my perfect mate was. Spirit had a plan all along, I just hadn't been paying attention. With that realization, I finally let go all the way, leaving my fate in the hands of Spirit. I let go completely of my own preconceptions and embraced the love Spirit had sent to me.

Once I fully let go, and put all my faith in Spirit, things began to go much more smoothly. things that had been out of sorts for so long straightened out. Things that I had expected to happen began to come into focus. And for the first time in many years, I found that I was truly happy. Not just surface happy... not just happy in the moment... but happy all the way through, and in every minute of every day.

Today is the second day of our lives together, and I am supremely happy. Many of my friends have asked me if it feels any different and I tell them, "yes, it does. It feels even better!" Even more striking is the fact that I know in my heart, we're just beginning. We have so much to look forward to, so much to do, so much to be. "Thank you" just doesn't seem to cover it, if you take my meaning.

So, if you ever feel as if you're fighting an uphill battle, perhaps it's because you're doing the same thing I was doing. Perhaps you are working at cross purposes with Spirit. Perhaps there's some sign you're missing, some message you aren't hearing. I have learned again that Spirit has a plan for me. I have learned that it's not just about what I'm supposed to be doing; it's also about my entire life! And Spirit has a plan for you, too.

When times are difficult, when things just won't go right no matter what you do, let go. Stop trying to force things. Let them happen instead. Let the good things flow into your life in their own way... in the way Spirit has planned for you. Let go of your own preconceptions. Let go of your determination to be the center of the universe.

Let go and let God. And remember, as I have been reminded, to trust absolutely in Spirit and its plan. Have faith that, no matter what's going on in your life, Spirit has something even better in mind if you'll only get out of the way. In other words, let go and let God.

Wrap yourself with trust in Spirit, and live the life of Spirit you so richly deserve!

In peace,

Lane

Greed Can Kill You

Black Friday. The best and worst shopping day of the year. The day after we give thanks for our many blessings, and yet so many of us are immediately willing to fight for more. And sometimes, we fight to the death.

Case in point: The WalMart store in Long Island, New York, where a temporary worker was trampled to death by the crowd waiting to enter the store. This poor man was trampled by dozens of shoppers who, feeling flesh beneath their feet, ignored it and ran for the sales. When police attempted to clear the building, they were met with resistance from those who were more interested in saving money than the welfare of another human being.

And this is Christmas?!?! This is how you honor the birth of your lord?!?!

Forgive my bluntness, but you aren't honoring anything except the Golden Calf. This is blatant greed at its worst, and a total disregard for the well-being of others. This is most decidedly NOT what Jesus taught. I'm betting Jesus cried all day for that man. I'm betting he cried in shame at what people have done to his teachings.

There is nothing wrong with wanting to provide a good life for your family. And certainly there is nothing wrong with trying to save a few dollars. But when greed turns you into a rabid, drooling member of a mob... totally thoughtless, totally out of control... then you have a serious problem. And a new TV set isn't going to help.

Most who read this will say to themselves, "it's not my fault." They will remind themselves that they weren't at that store. The will console themselves with the belief that their desire for more and more really isn't greed, per se.

And they will be wrong. For as long as we as a society buy into the More is Better mentality, as long as we finance our "dream life" with deficit spending, as long as we look with pride in ourselves at others who have less, we are a part of this problem. We pretend to be spiritual, yet worship gold and possessions above all else. We espouse a religion -- all the while berating others for not believing as we do -- only to spurn its teachings at every opportunity. And with every greedy act, every act of selfishness, we kill our own spirits. We do harm to our mortal souls. And we perpetuate the status quo mindset that it's all good as long as we get ours.

This is NOT Christmas the way it was explained to me as a child. And it is not Christmas as it should be celebrated.

My deepest sympathy to the family of that poor man. I hope WalMart will set up a fund to help them in this, their greatest loss. If they do, I'll offer what I can, and post a link here so you can do the same if you are of a mind to do so.

As we progress through the next several weeks, I urge all of you to carefully consider the teachings of your chosen religion. Ask yourself if this is the kind of behavior your religion espouses. Ask yourself if a new TV is worth sacrificing your spirit. For those who choose to live a life with Spirit, the answer is obvious. The answer is "NO!"

In peace,

Lane

Giving Thanks

Tomorrow we celebrate Thanksgiving. And while it seems that the modern version of the holiday centers on stuffing ourselves with turkey, then burping through a football game or two, there are still many who honor the day as it was intended - to pause in our busy lives to give thanks for the blessings we have received.

As I mentioned in my last post, I have many reasons to be thankful. Here are just some of them:

• I have a job. Don't laugh - many people are out of work, and the number is rising. So I'm very grateful that I still have a way to earn a living.
• I have my health. I recently quit smoking (again), and this time, it's the Final Quit. I still have a lot I'd like to accomplish before moving on, so I'm thankful I'm healthy and can look forward to several more decades.
• I have a wonderful, sweet woman who loves me just as I am. And supports my vision, the mission I've taken upon myself to complete. I am truly blessed to have such a strong love in my life. And even more blessed that she has agreed to marry me. I can't say thank you enough for this gift, so I make sure to do so at least twice a day!
  
• I have my family, which loves me unconditionally.
• I have my band, and the opportunity to use my gift of music to make others happy.

Of course, there are also many smaller reasons to be thankful. Every day brings new gifts, new joy. And I am thankful for each moment. I believe that it's important to be thankful every day - many times a day. But I also believe that it's good to take this day to pause and reflect on ALL of the good things in our lives... to remind ourselves that, even though they aren't perfect, our lives are gifts for which we should be constantly thankful.

Remember: being thankful for the many blessings you receive is a ciritical part of living a life with Spirit!

In peace,

Lane

The Week to Give Thanks

This year, I get an entire week in which to give thanks. I say this because today is the day we will have Thanksgiving dinner at our house of worship. We're doing this so that those who are traveling to visit family over the holidays can still take part.

Every year, I make a list of reasons to be thankful. And this year, I think the list is going to be rather long, as I've had some wonderful things come into my life this year. I'll post the list Thursday instead of today, as I want to really give some serious thought to it before writing it out and putting it on the Net.

So why mention it today? First, because today starts my week of Thanksgiving. Second, because I hope to encourage you to make your own list. I know that many - myself included - have suffered some hardships, especially with the meltdown of our economy. But even in such circumstances, there are many things to be thankful for. I hope each of you will take some time to think about the GOOD things in your life, and will remember to be thankful for each one.

I'll see you in a few days. Until then, however, be thankful!

In peace,

Lane

Today We All Are Called to Be Disciples

The Sunday before last, we sang a Christian hymn at service. I was very impressed with this particular song, because of the many wonderful ideas it offers. I decided right then and there to share it with you here.

Today We All Are Called to Be Disciples

Today we all are called to be
Disciples of the Lord
To help to set the captive free
Make plow-share out of sword
To feed the hungry quench their thirst
Make love and peace our fast
To serve the poor and homeless first
Our ease and comfort last

God made the world and at its birth
Ordained our human race
To live as stewards of the earth
Responding to God's grace
But we are vain and sadly proud
We sow not peace but strife
Our discord spreads a deadly cloud
That threatens all of life

Pray justice may come rolling down
As in a mighty stream
With righteousness in field and town
To cleanse us and redeem
For God is longing to restore
An earth where conflicts cease
A world that was created for
A harmony of peace

May we in service to our God
Act out the living word
And walk the road the saints have trod
Till all have seen and heard
As stewards of the earth may we
Give thanks in one accord
To God who calls us all to be
Disciples of the Lord

Whether your are Christian or not, I believe this hymn offers many excellent suggestions for living a life with Spirit. Instead of telling you how I feel about it, however, I'd like to ask you to think about the words, and what they mean. I hope you will enjoy them as much as I do.

In peace,

Lane

I Quit!

Today, I am officially a non-smoker. After losing a 4-year Quit, and then stopping and restarting more times than I can count, this is The Last Quit. I thought I'd mention it here for those who might like to follow my progress.

I've recently set up another blog - The Diary of a Quitter - and will post almost daily to that one. For the most part, I won't be discussing my Quit here. But I did want to let readers know about this exciting new adventure.

In peace,

Lane

Lessons From Our Ancestors

Recently, I came across a poster that offered ten lessons attributed to the “Native Americans.” Now, there is no such thing as a “pan-Indian” life-way. Each nation had its own ways, its own myths, legends, teaching stories, even technology. However, there are are many common philosophies, just as there are common threads among all religions. And it is to these common threads the poster alludes.

I admire the concepts offered, and have decided to keep this list handy, although I will not refer to them, as does the poster as “The Native American Ten Commandments,” and changed the name by which the Sacred is called. (Native Americans don’t have a “ten commandments”, even within a specific nation, and I prefer to stay closer to their original concept of “God” instead of attempting to force their beliefs into a different religious structure. See my previous post on assimilation for more on this.)

Here then is my slight edit of the list of lessons, each followed by a thought or two.

The earth is our mother. Care for her.
Even a rat knows to not foul its own nest. Caring for the earth is no different that keeping our own house in order. It’s merely a question of scale of thinking.

Honor all your relations.

We are related to everything in creation. Everything deserves respect.

Open your heart and soul to the Mystery.

This seems obvious – live a life of Spirit.

All life is sacred. Treat all beings with respect.

The wanton destruction of species, whether predator or prey, only serves to damage the complex web of all life.

Take from the earth what is needed and nothing more.

Greed is NOT good, especially on a global, environmental level. To take more than is needed is to leave less for the ever-growing population to come.

Do what needs to be done for the good of all.

Live your life in service to others. Virtually every Life Way teaches us to find our fulfillment in what we do for others, not in the “things” we accumulate.

Give constant thanks to the Mystery for each new day.

Be grateful for all you receive. Constantly immerse yourself in the Sacred that flows through all of creation.

Speak the truth, but only of the good in others.

It is just as hurtful to speak badly of others as it is to lie. The only person you should be talking to is the person themselves who is in question. And if you must talk to someone about their negative behavior or thoughts, it should be done in a caring, respectful manner, with the goal of helping them live a better life. It should never be done in anger. To all others, you we should confine ourselves to only speaking of the positive in others.

Follow the rhythms of nature. Rise and retire with the sun.

To me, this one isn’t about going to sleep at sundown. Rather, it tells us when to begin and end our workday. After the sun has gone down, it’s time to be with family – eating, telling stories, singing… being.

Enjoy life’s journey, but leave no tracks.

We should each strive to leave the world a better place than it was when we arrived. Enjoy the gifts, relish in the many wonderful things a good life brings, but remember that we are only stewards, charged with the responsibility to care for the rest of creation. This ensures that future generations will also have a wondrous world in which to live.

I hope you will take the time to carefully consider each lesson. I see no conflict between these teachings and those of the religions I’ve studied. In fact, they seem to reinforce them. I think they would be an excellent touchstone for anyone seeking to live a life of Spirit.

In peace,

Lane

Assimilation is Futile

In the popular series Star Trek: Next Generation, the Borg are a recurring enemy. A "collective" community, the Borg assimilate all cultures with which they come in contact - whether they like it or not. Their response to any attempt to escape is, "you will be assimilated. Resistance is futile."

Forgive my audacity, but my reply is "oh, no, it isn't!!

Why am I talking about a science fiction TV series? Because I was reminded of it the other day as I read a letter to the editors of USA Today. In the letter, an emigre from Eastern Europe suggested assimilation as the best option for Muslims in the US. His reason was that he himself came to America because he wanted to live the American dream. For me, that's a total paradox. Not since the Puritans did the "American dream" include religious persecution. In fact, we've enjoyed constitutional protection for freedom of religion since the document was written. This right was then strengthened with further legislation in the 20th century... to guarantee that each of us could worship in the manner that best suits us.

Evidently, the problem is that a few devout Muslims wanted to take a few moments for prayer at the correct times, according to their scriptures. And, while it is true that there are five times each day, only three of these would impact normal working hours. Furthermore, they could be coordinated with morning and afternoon breaks (required by law) and lunch break. What's the big deal, I wonder?

Would the letter writer have felt the same way if the persons being persecuted were Christians who felt the need for multiple daily prayers? Or Jews? Would others have reacted negatively if it was about people of their own religion? I don't know, but I have a feeling that there is some level of double standard being applied here.

To me, one of the biggest problems with our country, and our world, is that we're too religious and not spiritual enough. So many people are so fully wrapped up in their own dogma that they forget it's OK for others to follow different belief structures. They're so busy thumping others with their religious book, they forget to actually follow the teachings. Come on, folks! If someone wants to pray more, let them! In fact, here's a thought: join them with a prayer of your own!

Let me offer a thought from Wade Davis, noted Canadian anthropologist:

The world in which you were born is just one model of reality. Other cultures are not failed attempts at being you. They are unique manifestations of the human spirit.

I have no desire to be assimilated. Nor do I wish to see anyone else forced away from their own understanding of the nature of the Sacred. I would go so far as to say that assimilation itself is futile. We are different one from another, and that is as it should be. If we all wore the same clothes, we'd be wearing uniforms. If we all wore the same religion, it would be an enforced religion. Think about that for a minute.

Christians - even just the protestant varieties - can't agree on interpretation of numerous biblical concepts and passages. How are we ever going to force everyone on the planet into a single paradigm?

Celebrate the differences! Instead of turning up your nose at someone because they pray differently, or at different times, why not worry about your own spiritual journey? Because, to me, if you are worrying about how or when a person prays, you aren't living a life with Spirit.

In peace,

Lane

Catching Up - Again!

Good morning! As you already know if you've been reading here, I've had a very difficult time posting consistently. Believe me when I tell you that I'd much rather have had the time! (smile) Today, I just wanted to say "HI!" and get on track for a minimum of two posts per week.

I'd also like to inform you that I have another blog that was just set up yesterday. The Diary of a Quitter is my journal about quitting smoking. I am at T-6 days and gearing up for my FINAL quit! Feel free to check that one out as well.

Here's hoping this post finds you well and happy... and productive!

Fighting Global Hunger - at HOME

Greetings once again. And, again, after a long absence. I have been far too busy for far too long. Thankfully that is changing, and I'll tell you about that some other time, I'm sure. Today, however, I wanted to call your attention to the problem of global hunger and poverty. I know - the economy is on thin ice right now, and that's actually one of the reasons for this post. Let me explain:

Jim Wallis is an evangelical minister with a liberal bent. He often takes to task the far Right evangelicals who, he believes, are too strict in their interpretations of the Bible, and too strict in the religiously based laws thet attempt to have passed. I receive an e-letter from his Sojourners organization regularly, and often find myself nodding in agreement to what I read.

Today, Jim offered this article, which is also on his blog (to which I've linked). After reading the article, I decided ,for the first time, to post a response on his blog. By the time I hit the fifth or sixth paragraph, I decided it was rude to post that much of my own opinion on his web site. So I'm writing this post, and will then return to his blog to post a comment with a link for those who want to read more.

If you'd like to read the full article, please do so now.

For those who prefer a poor synopsis, Jim wrote about the letter recently released by MICAH Challenge USA.Part of the MICAH Network, a global Christian organization, they called to American Christians to help reduce poverty worldwide. It's an extremely important goal, and I support it. I believe that our government should support all such efforts, not only with financial aid, but also in collaring those corporations that do severe economic, evironmental, and social damage abroad, all in the name of profit (spelled g-r-e-e-d).

However, now more than ever, what with the economy struggling, and the drastic effect it's already having on our communities. And it's going to get worse before it gets better. Here then, is the response I almost left on Jim's blog.
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I agree completely that the US should lead the way in eliminating poverty around the world. And while I agree that we should all contribute to the rest of the world, I am currently focused on the United States itself. Especially now, with the economy in shambles with more fallout coming, there will more and more people who need help to feed their families. In my small town of Danville, population about 30,000, our food pantry served more than 8000 people last year. People laid off from factories with no notice. Seniors who have had to welcome their children and grandchildren into their home due to some economic distress, now having to feed extra mouths from a fixed income.

I became aware of our local food pantry when my band released its first CD. We wanted to commemorate the event with something special, and decided a benefit for our community was the best way to do that. And, looking around the community, we believed that there was no cause more worthy than helping those who couldn't feed their families. This is how Foodstock Charities was formed. It began with a hastily coordinated benefit concert. Instead of raising $500 -- as estimated by many (pessimistically) -- we managed to raise just over FIVE THOUSAND dollars in food and donations. And every penny and every pea collected went directly to the food pantry.

Those who performed did so for free, in a hall donated by the local community college, through a PA system rented by sponsors. Dozens of local businesses donated goods to gift baskets raffled or auctioned at the event. The expenses that cropped up at the last minute were covered by the band itself; and we also donated food and all proceeds from CD and merchandise sales the day of the event.

Now, eight months later, we're producing an even larger event. The Foodstock Fall Festival will be held Saturday, October 11th, 10-7. More bands, more food more fun! And the community is making an even stronger showing of support. More radio stations and tv affiliates are interested. More businesses are donating to the raffles. And we hope to raise a LOT more money! Our goal is $52,000 a year - a thousand a week, to help feed those in the greatest need. We may not make it this year, even with two events. But we're going to get a LOT closer than we imagined for the first year.

Even better is that we now have friends, all musicians, in other cities around the country who want to mount local Foodstock events. Sacramento and Nashville are already in pre-production. San Francisco, Chicago, Indianapolis, Champaign (IL) and others are all talking seriously about next year. So we set up a new site to serve as an umbrella for everyone who chooses to participate.

Why are people so positive in their response? I think there are a few reasons. First, EVERY penny a person contributes goes directly to the program we're supporting. NO ONE is making a dime. We're paying for the web sites, and pretty much everything else necessary to mount the event. Even the businesses know that it's ALL to help us feed babies! How can you not like that?

I've worked in the non-profit world for many years, and I realize that there are costs involved. I applaud all organizations that contain their expenses according to NICB guidelines. It's tough to do. And I mean no disrespect. But when everyone involved knows it's ALL for the cause, it adds to the excitement.

Second is that it started with just four people. Ordinary citizens....mostly lower middle class, with low class roots. A band... a bunch of musicians. And not Jazz musicians. Not Gospel. Nothing upscale, in other words. A Blues band of all things. Two geezers and the son of the youngest of the two, plus the close friend who does graphics and videos for us. And we did it all with the help of a handful of people to help us. Every business that took part spoke with one of us. Every sponsor, every contact, it all came through a small group of folks. It's was so totally "homey", which made people feel directly involved in a community sort of way.

Starting so small also showed that a few people could create great change. It didn't take a huge organization. It only took a little determination, and a drive to do something positive for our community. It gave people a sense of empowerment, especially since they were contributing to their own community.

For those interested, I hope you'll check out Danville Foodstock, perhaps make a donation to our October drive. We have a permanent account that goes directly to the food pantry via PayPal. It's their account; we just have a donation button to send you there. We greatly appreciate all contributions!!

If you prefer, take a look at Foodstock Charities. This site is brand new and very small, but bookmark it for later, because it looks as if it will grow very quickly. This is where you'll find information about Foodstock events around the US.

The point of this post, however, is to point out two things:

1. Yes, poverty is a global problem. And, yes, the US should do a lot more to help reduce it.

2. We need to work in our own country at least as dilligently, and it doesn't take that many people to get something really good started.

You can be the catalyst for change in your community. You can be the one that says, "hey, here's something that needs doing" and get it done. And here's the kicker - that's what living a life with Spirit is all about.

I'm very excited to tell you about two charity projects, both produced by my band Deeper Blues: OPERATION: DEEPER BLUES and Foodstock Charities. First the what, then the why.


The purpose of OPERATION: DEEPER BLUES is to show our support for and appreciation of our Armed Forces serving in combat zones. To us, it isn't about whether or not you support the war - or any war for that matter - it's about offering a small bit of thanks for those who serve in our military and under the most dangerous of circumstances.

From now on, for every Dig the Hole CD Deeper Blues sells, we will donate a FREE copy to OPERATION: DEEPER BLUES for distribution to servicemen and women serving in Iraq, Afghanistan and other combat zones. In addition, we are accepting donations to pay for even more CDs. Ever dollar donated buys another CD!

Every Dollar


Buys a CD!

Click on the button above to donate through our PayPal account, using your credit card or PayPal account. Every dollar buys another CD for our troops - Deeper Blues takes nothing, and also contributes one CD for every CD sold. We're even paying shipping out of our own pockets!

Foodstock Charities grew out of Danville Foodstock. It all started as a way for the band to commemorate the release of Dig the Hole, our first CD. We wanted to do something special, and worthwhile... something more than a "CD Release Party". We looked around our community and saw that there was a great need at Danville Area Food Pantry.

The pantry serves thousands of people every year, people who are unable to feed themselves and their children. Many have suffered layoffs in are factories or other businesses as the economy has worsened. Others are senior citizens on a fixed income. Of these, many have taken grown children, even grandchildren, back into their homes - again due to job loss or other economic setback.

In less than five weeks, the band produced a benefit concert that raised $5000 in food and donations. (For more info, see Danville Foodstock.) We also caught the community's attention. So much so, in fact, that we were immediately asked to mount another, even larger, event in the fall. The Danville Foodstock Fall Festival will take place at Lincoln Park, Saturday, October 11th, 2008. Nine hours (or more) of fun, food and music. All to raise funds for the food pantry.

Now, truth be told, we though it would take several years to build our event to the point that we'd be able to move it to Lincoln Park, which is the largest park in the city limits. (Ellsworth is larger, I think, but Lincoln will hold ten thousand people, so we're not worried.) Just achieving that milestone in less than a year is quite a feat! But it gets better! You see, Foodstock is going national!

Friends around the country heard about what we were doing. And some began to take notice. Now, groups in Sacramento, CA, and Nashville, TN are working to mount their own Foodstock events. I can't tell you how pleased I am... and how honored!

To keep up, we've created a new web site: Foodstock Charities. This will be the national rallying point for all Foodstock events. Soon, we will also accept donations at this national level for those who would like to spread their giving to the most neediest areas in which we work.

The wonderful thing about Foodstock - the thing that makes it different from almost every other benefit or charity organization - is that no money is taken off the top! That's right... no expenses, no salaries, nothing! We are proud to say that every penny and every pea donated goes directly to the food programs we support. One hundred percent of your donation goes to the cause!

OK. That's the what. Now, let's talk about the why. The answer is simple: because it's necessary, even required. Every religion and life way that I have studied teaches that charity and compassion for your fellow man (and woman) is a prerequisite to living a life with spirit. Listen to the words of Jesus of Nazareth:

Truly I say to you, to the extent that you did it to one of these brothers of Mine, even the least of them, you did it to Me. ~ Matthew 25:40 - New Am. Standard

But when you give a feast, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind, and you will be blessed, … you will be repaid. ~ Luke 14: 13,14 - New King James

One of the Five Pillars of Islam is charity. Members of indigenous tribes prove their worth to the community in part by how they serve the neediest members of the village. Here is what Buddha had to say about charity:

The charitable man has found the path of salvation. He is like the man who plants a sapling, securing thereby the shade, the flowers, and the fruit in future years. Even so is the result of charity, even so is the joy of him who helps those that are in need of assistance; even so is the great Nirvana. We reach the immortal path only by continuous acts of kindliness and we perfect our souls by compassion and charity.

Study the teachings of your religion or life way. What does it tell you? I'll give you long odds that it teaches charity for those less fortunate, to show compassion no matter the color of the skin, the religion or the citizenry of others. We are taught to reach across all boundaries and obstacles and to do unto others as we would have done to us. And that's the foundation of why.

But, for us, it goes deeper. When Gary and I first met, we both though we had reached the pinnacle of our respective careers. Sure, we still had more music to play, more songs to sing, but at my age (52 next week), the odds of another chance at something more than regional work seemed rather slim. And while I wouldn't say we were happy with it, we were resigned to it, and grateful for the things we'd already gotten to do.

But it was magic the night we first played together. I've been playing music for 47 years now, 39 on bass... and more than two and a half decades as a professional, with a lot of semi-pro work before that. Gary's a decade younger than me, but still has 25 years as a career musician to his credit. And I've never been a part of anything like this. Gary is - without a doubt - the best, most soulful guitarist I've ever know, much less played with. And the Blues we play is deeper than anything I've ever done before. Once again, I've been blessed by a Gift of Spirit - and Gary feels the same way.

We know we've received an incredible opportunity, and we know from whence it came. And we believe that the best way we can honor that gift, the best way to show how truly grateful we are, is to give something back to the world. It is for that reason, and that reason alone, that Deeper Blues is so committed to its charity work. We believe it's necessary... that it's required of us. And we accept that requirement with open hearts and hands.

I hope you will join us in one - or both! - of our endeavors. We believe that both of them are very important to the vitality of our community. And we believe that, for anyone wishing to live a life of spirit, it is crucial to practice acts of pure charity and compassion.

Spiritual Math

I just received an email from a friend... one of those "send it to your entire address book" kind of things. Now, I don't normally pass these on, but this one is a bit different. Take a look at this amazing math:

1 x 8 + 1 = 9
12 x 8 + 2 = 98
123 x 8 + 3 = 987
1234 x 8 + 4 = 9876
12345 x 8 + 5 = 98765
123456 x 8 + 6 = 987654
1234567 x 8 + 7 = 9876543
12345678 x 8 + 8 = 98765432
123456789 x 8 + 9 = 987654321

1 x 9 + 2 = 11
12 x 9 + 3 = 111
123 x 9 + 4 = 1111
1234 x 9 + 5 = 11111
12345 x 9 + 6 = 111111
123456 x 9 + 7 = 1111111
1234567 x 9 + 8 = 11111111
12345678 x 9 + 9 = 111111111
123456789 x 9 +10= 1111111111

9 x 9 + 7 = 88
98 x 9 + 6 = 888
987 x 9 + 5 = 8888
9876 x 9 + 4 = 88888
98765 x 9 + 3 = 888888
987654 x 9 + 2 = 8888888
9876543 x 9 + 1 = 88888888
98765432 x 9 + 0 = 888888888

Brilliant, isn't it?

And look at this symmetry:

1 x 1 = 1
11 x 11 = 121
111 x 111 = 12321
1111 x 1111 = 1234321
11111 x 11111 = 123454321
111111 x 111111 = 12345654321
1111111 x 1111111 = 1234567654321
11111111 x 11111111 = 123456787654321
111111111 x 111111111 = 12345678987654321

Now, take a look at this...

101%

From a strictly mathematical viewpoint:

What Equals 100%? What does it mean to give MORE than 100%?

Ever wonder about those people who say they are giving more than 100%?

We have all been in situations where someone wants you to GIVE OVER 100%.

How about ACHIEVING 101%?

What equals 100% in life?

Here's a little mathematical formula that might help answer these questions:

If:

A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z


Is represented as:

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 1 3 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26.

If:

H-A-R-D-W-O-R- K

8+1+18+4+23+15+18+11 = 98%

And:

K-N-O-W-L-E-D-G-E

11+14+15+23+12+5+4+7+5 = 96%

But:

A-T-T-I-T-U-D-E

1+20+20+9+20+21+4+5 = 100%

THEN, look how far the love of God will take you:

L-O-V-E-O-F-G-O-D

12+15+22+5+15+6+7+15+4 = 101%

Therefore, one can conclude with mathematical certainty that:

While Hard Work and Knowledge will get you close, and Attitude will get you there, It's the Love of God that will put you over the top!

I don't know if this is proof that the spiritual essence of life is the most important, but it sure adds up that way, doesn't it? (Sorry, couldn't resist!)

Feel free to copy this bit of math and send it to your friends!

(Fresh) Waterfalling

Recently, the discussion on nuclear power has taken a new turn. With the threat of Peak Oil, not to mention the current ( and, most likely, the continuing) spike in fuel prices, everyone is talking about alternate energy sources. And much to the ire of environmentalists, nuclear energy is on the table more visibly than ever before.

The problem, however, is the environmental cost of extracting, then using, nuclear fuel. Perhaps the most over-looked aspect of building more nuclear plants is the dramatic, negative effect it will have on the water supply.

The rapid decline of our fresh water supply is overshadowed by Global Warming, Peak Oil and continuing unrest in (or dislike of) the oil rich countries of the world. And the discussion is often unproductive, either missing the point entirely, or coming at it from the wrong direction. But, that's a whole 'nother Oprah, as my best friend would say, so let's stay on point.

Our lakes and rivers are evaporating, if not literally, then figuratively. It doesn't matter why as much as it matters that it's happening. Water supports all life on this planet - not just yours and mine, but all plants and animals. As our rivers and lakes dry up, and our glaciers melt away, desertification begins. Sure, we can desalinate sea water. In small quantities, it's even feasible on some level to do so. But we cannot desalinate nearly enough to handle the demands of so many people and the agriculture required to support them... much less support the rest of the planet.

In the middle of this is the Grand Canyon. And in the middle of that, way down at the bottom there, is the Colorado River, one of our most important rivers. One of the most recognizable landmarks in the world, and arguably one of the most important, it has faced the threat of uranium mining for decades. In fact, the Orphan Mine was closed almost 40 years ago. Unfortunately, the site is still not cleaned up, and two major defense contractors are refusing to do their part. But they still feed from the public trough, but that's yet another Oprah. This is just one of many sites that continue to pose an significant environmental - and health! - danger. But there are those that can't wait to open hundreds of mining claims on public land, threatening thousands upon thousands of acres of land, and the water the flows through them and resides in their aquifers.

This is madness. The is suicide. Are we really that stupid?

The Grand Canyon is again threatened by mining.

Well, no, we aren't. However corporations exist solely to consume resources, turning them into marketable products that are sold for a profit. That's what corporations do. They seldom have a conscience about silly things like survival of the species. (Yes, there are socially conscious corporations; they are the minority by far, most especially in the oil and nuclear industries.) And it appears that at least some corporations are indeed this stupid. Our wisdom, or lack thereof, will be demonstrated by what we do about their stupidity.

We have what another close friend calls a Binary Solution Set: we can let them do it, standing by and watching the destruction of the habitat that supports us, or we can stop them by standing up for our right to life, and for the right to life of the entire ecosystem. I choose the latter.

The first step is to write an email or letter to every politician that represents you. Not just federal and state, but also locally, at the county and city level. Include every appropriate agency, including environmental, agricultural, health and more. It's not hard to create a form letter, then copy it to each party. And it wouldn't take more than a few hours to reach out to every one of them.

The second step is to get the dialog going by writing letters to the editors of every publication you can. Again, the local papers and magazines, but also regional and national outlets. Of course, there are numerous sites on the web where you can get involved in the discussion.

The third step is to reach out to family, friends, coworkers and others with whom you interact regularly. Encourage them to get involved as well; get them engaged.

A few things to remember:

• Walk the talk. Strive to increase your own conservation efforts as an example to others.
• Be civil and respectful. Certainly there are legions of loudmouths in our world (still another Oprah), but that doesn't mean you have to be one of them. Committing yourself to civil discourse will win you far more compatriots than lowering yourself to the current standard to which many hold.

Air and water are the two most important natural resources we have. To do further harm to them will destroy the system that supports us. We cannot wait to act. We must all stand up and be heard. Our children require it.

Memorial Day - 2008

Today, we pay our respects to those who have given their lives in our wars. I point this out because so many people confuse the meaning of this day with Veteran's Day, which honors all service men and women. While all veterans deserve respect, those who have died in service to our country deserve a special day just for them.

And what do most Americans do today? They look for sales. They plan barbecues and parties. Very few spend much time really thinking about the meaning of the day.

Things were a bit different in our house when I was growing up. Sure, we still pulled out the grill, but we also took time to think about our fallen brothers and sisters. My father - a true, albeit reluctant, war hero - lost many men under his command in Viet Nam. And he grieved for every one. He lost friends and loved ones, and missed them terribly.

For the past several days, I've thought about this entry. The thing that came back around again and again was that so many of these deaths were unnecessary. I look at what's going on today and I know that we've lost thousands of sons and daughters that didn't need to die. And I grieve for every one.

Moving forward, I'm going to do something that I believe will honor our fallen better than anything else I could do. I'm going to work for peace. Peace for all, peace in our time. How better to honor the sacrifice than to work for a time when such sacrifice is no longer needed.

Today, I hope you'll join me in offering a prayer for the fallen. I hope you'll take at least a few minutes to think about how, working together, we can create a world where warriors aren't needed... where our governments do not fight over resources... where countries actually learn to cooperate to the benefit of all.

To those we have lost, I say thank you from the bottom of my heart. For your courage. For your sacrifice.

Common Ground

One thing I talk about a lot in my writing, and when I speak, is the commonality of beliefs among people. Yes, there are surface differences between the various religions and life ways on this planet. But when you dig deep down, so much of it is the same.

We spend so much time bickering over the petty issues that we lose sight of the fact that we are all children of Spirit. We are all sisters and brothers. It saddens me to think of how much trouble this bickering has caused or the history of man.

I have friends who follow many religions - Christianity, Judaism, Islam, Hindu, Buddhism, Shinto, Rastafarian, and indigenous life ways beyond count. From each, I learn more about their teaching stories and beliefs. And I gain new understanding, not only of them, but of myself and the universe.

When I speak to groups, especially religious groups, I seek the common ground. I promote the ideals and ethics that we all share. I do not disclude others by focusing on one religion to the detriment of all others. And I certainly don't disrespect or talk down life ways that are not my own.

Now, there are some - OK, many - who will brow beat with their holy book anyone within striking distance who will stand still long enough for the assault. If the victim of such abuse resists or disagrees in any way, then the judgements begin. There are two things intrinsically wrong with this in my mind:

1. It's totally contrary to virtually every life way and religion. So, basically, you're ignoring your reglion's teachings by acting like this, and

2. It's probably the worst way of encouraging someone to convert.

Sometimes I really wish folks like that would just SHUT UP! and walk the talk. Show me by the example of your life that your way is worthy of further study and possible conversion. How dare you try to force others. Even Spirit doesn't force people. Why should you?

Reacting in anger, however, is never really an answer, is it? I've found that it's much more productive to listen politely and actively to the other person, then perhaps offering examples of common belief. It's not "I'll convert you before you convert me". It's more about "I don't need to be converted". And guess what? We can still be friends!

We all stand on sacred ground, and we are all children of Spirit. We are here to coexist peacefully with each other - in spite of our petty differences. And learning to rise above those differences and revel in our commonality is a wonderful way to live a life with Spirit.

The Summer Begins

Welcome back - though somewhat belatedly. This has turned out to be one of the busiest years of my life. So busy, in fact, that I have simply been unable to accomplish everything I want/need to get done. . . including this blog and other writing duties.

I'm not complaining, but apologizing for the lapses. So far, it's been a wonderful year in many ways. Deeper Blues is doing well, and things look even better on the horizon. My work with Eden Electronics is still immensely rewarding, but time consuming. Thankfully, founder David Nordschow willingly allows me to coordinate my work with him to fit my schedule, no matter how crazy things get.

Deeper Blues is rapidly approaching it's two-year mark. I don't know if that should be called "birthday", "anniversary" or what. But it sure feels good to get there. Since I first met him, I haven't been shy about saying it: Gary Jones is the best Blues guitarist I've ever heard, much less worked with. This band is, without a doubt, a dream come true - a true gift of Spirit.


For the first 15 months of our relationship, Gary and I immersed ourselves in a vision and committed ourselves to a mission and a goal. Countless nights of discussion over coffee, merciless rehearsals, and a weekly, very informal and low key performance at which to fine tune our sound. We emerged from our second season at Charlotte's at the end of August, 2007, with a CD in final production, but without a drummer. Aaron Bouslog, the fine young percussionist who had been working with us since the previous summer moved to Carbondale to pursue a rigorous education in music at Southern Illinois University.


Gary's son, James, quickly asked for an audition. From the first song, I knew he'd not only be OK, given time and encouragement, he'd be outstanding. After three weeks of constant rehearsal, James made his debut with Deeper Blues at a special Saturday performance at the end of September last year - right back at Charlotte's where the band began. Our family and friends were amazed, as were Gary and I. I've never seen or heard a better debut.


Since then, the band has been rehearsing, writing tons of new music and preparing to tour the US and internationally. We've already played Chicago, Buffalo Grove (near Chicago), Nashville and Chattanooga, and have begun our third season at Charlotte's. In addition to the full-production CD Dig the Hole, released in January, the band recently released the Homegrown Vol. 1 CD, which includes three live tracks and two recorded down and dirty (like the old days) with virtually no "production" at all. We've also released a companion Homegrown DVD that includes a trio of music videos and behind the scenes mini-documentaries. By the end of the summer, we'll have one more of each.


In the coming months, we'll be visiting Nashville again (at least twice), Cincinnati, Indianapolis, Chattanooga and Chicago, with other cities being added. In November, we'll be traveling to California for several weeks, including taking part in an extremely interesting "Rock School" competition - as judges and headliners of a "faculty" concert. We'll also are working to give a presentation to the Rio Linda High School student body on Music Appreciation, and to the music students on what it takes to be a professional musician.

You may wonder what this band has to do with living a life with Spirit. For starters, remember what I've said before - every day is sacred; everything we do should be based on our commitment to living a spiritual life. If we aspire to that goal, everything we do is founded on our spirituality. But it's far deeper than that. Early on, I described this opportunity as a gift of Spirit, and I truly believe it is. We all do our best to honor that gift by giving our all, and by committing ourselves to a higher goal, a higher cause. Moving forward, I hope to share with you more about this wonderful adventure.

It's a gorgeous night, and the stars are out in force and the lake, acting as a mirror doubles them nicely. I'm going to go sit on my balcony, pet a cat or two, and enjoy it while I can. Because in just a few short weeks, there will be bajillions of nightfliers buzzing around in search of warm blooded food - like me! (smile)


Tomorrow, a thought or two on religion. Then Monday, it's all about Memorial Day and those who have given their lives in our country's wars.

It's been far too long, and I've been far too busy

Wow, it's a been a lot longer than I realized! Since my last post, which was almost a year and a half ago, there's been so much going on, I'm not even sure where to begin. It seems to me that, this time, it's best to do a quick overview. In subsequent posts, I'll go into more detail.

Before I begin, however, I'd like to thank those who have e-mailed me during the interim. I appreciate knowing there are some who find this blog - and the A Life with Spirit web site - useful. I've made a promise to myself that I would post at least once a week in the future.

Now... let's see. Where to start?

I guess the best place is my band, Deeper Blues. After many bumps and potholes, we released our first CD, Dig the Hole, in late January. So far, the response has been incredible, and we're looking forward to touring the US, and perhaps Europe, this year. I'll tell you lots more about this in coming posts. For now, here's a shot of the band, and you can learn more on our web site and our MySpace page.

And that brings me to my next point... to celebrate the release of the CD, we produced a benefit for our local food pantry. Dubbed Foodstock "08, it was a rousing success, raising over $5,000 with more coming in every day. Even better, we were asked to produce another concert at the end of the summer or early fall. The picture above was taken at the first (of many, we hope!) event.

I'm also pleased to report that in the near future, I'll be included in a collection of essays, tentatively titled Servant-Leadership: Heart, Mind, Spirit. I'm still in shock, and am thoroughly honored to be included in a series of books that has included writings by such notable management gurus as Robert Greenleaf, Larry Spears, Steven Covey, Max Depree and many others.

During this next year, I hope to visit many parts of the US while on tour with Deeper Blues. At the same time, I will be investigating speaking opportunities with various religious, civic and business organizations. Of course, I will announce any appearances here, and will look forward very much to meeting any who have supported this blog.

So...that's the short version. I'll be back soon with greater detail on each of these and, of course, I'll continue to offer my thoughts on spirituality and living a life with spirit! To those celebrating holidays this time of year, I wish you the very best, and encourage you to remember the reason for the season. May we all be blessed during this special time of year.

Lane